Ziana deBethune, Certified Life and Career Coach: Do you need Relationship Coaching?

Relationships & Life

Please take a few moments to visit my Blog, "In My NOT-so-humble Opinion." It might help.

Coaching not just for the Hollywood Elite crowd anymore. Coaches come in many varieties. Some specialize in weight loss, some in parenting, others in leadership. I've been trained both as a Life Coach and as a Career Coach, because to me, when one area of your life suffers, this bleeds over into the other areas, sometimes to the point where you don't know anymore which is cause and which is effect.

Society likes to compartmentalize these different areas of our lives to keep our preception of things all neat and tidy...but tell me, when did life itself ever follow the rules? It likes to throw curve balls at us. I'm here to help you figure it out.

Consultation is FREE

Ziana de Bethune, CWC, CPCC, CRMT

Relationship & Life Coaching

Are men and women really from different planets?

Of course they are, but that's beside the point. Let's look at what we can fix.

Why do some relationships work, while others just don't? Have you been in the same dead-end relationship forever? Or losing someone's interest before you even get into a relationship?

Do you feel "stuck?" Frustrated? Angry?Depressed? All of the above?

More importantly, are you ready to change it?

In our daily relationships, the road isn't always a smooth one. Most of the time we fall into behavioral patterns that seem to become a way of life for everyone involved. We keep trying to produce different results this time, only to become more deflated and frustrated when it doesn't work. It doesn't work because the same actions produce the same results, every time. Check the next column for the rundown on the typical "cycle."

The Cycle Of Despair

Here's the typical cycle. See if it rings any bells.

First, we face the same old crisis or situation that's been bothering us for, perhaps, years.
We struggle with these issues and the confusion surrounding them, to the point where we rationalize that...
We will stick it out and get through it — again.
Our ability to ride the storm reinforces our belief that we can tough it out. We're strong, after all. Right?

We keep plugging along until the underlying problem is once again buried and remains unresolved. Until the issue resurfaces again, and throws us right back into the cycle.

Feeling this level of frustration isn't a bad thing (even though it certainly feels like it!) It is really just a signal that it's time to change things up a bit because they're not working as they are. That doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is dead, though at times it feels as if you're trapped in the Roller Coaster From Hell, doesn't it?

The Solution

Many remain in that cycle for many reasons.

"I don't know how to fix this."
"I don't know where to start."
"I'm afraid of what will happen."
"It's not my fault. It's his!"
"What will others think?"

We can work together on...

Dating issues
Interpersonal clashes
Becoming more objective
Understanding men/women
Getting to the root of the problem
Improving communication skills
Learn the art of "fighting fair"
Learn to see things from different perspectives
Complex decisions
Devising a "plan of action"
Setting measurable goals
Following through

Testimonials

"Ziana deBethune has helped me identify issues within my crumbling marriage and how I relate to men in general. She has helped me understand why I pick emotionally unavailable men. That realization, alone, was astounding! She's given me tools to deal with this problem now, and pointers on how to avoid such dead-end relationships in the future.

I've found Ziana truly knowledgeable, empathetic, and caring. Her kindness and humor put the client at ease and able to open up to get to the root of the problem. In the process of helping me turn my life around, Ziana has been not only a mentor, but now, a friend. With her help, I'm on a path to a much happier future."

"Nina B."

"If you are lucky, you may encounter a number of people who will guide and support you when it is needed most on your path in life. For me ONE amazing individual has offered me the wisdom of many. Throughout some of my most difficult, heart wrenching journeys, Ziana De Bethune has been a healing spirit and blessing to me. Continually giving enlightenment, clarity, truth, strength, empathy, encouragement, kindness and compassion. She has been and continues to be my wise counsel, my teacher in life, and a friend."

"Bree. E."

*Last names omitted to ensure client confidentiality.*

“I challenge you to make your life a masterpiece. I challenge you to join the ranks of those
people who live what they teach, who walk their talk.”
~ Tony Robbins.